I HAVE GOT TONNSSSS TO BLOG TODAY!
be prepare for a UBER LONG post!
i shall write in different heading for easy reading. =)
1. I CUT MY HAIR! (as i mentioned tt i will)
cut my fringe SHORT. *snapped!*
my long hair was chop off at least by 7cm!
i want it shorter..
but i duno y tt aunty seems to be reluctant to cut shorter for me.
i wun post the pic.
cuz it was EXCCEPTIONALLY --> U-G-L-Y!
as i predicted, fat bloated balloon!
but yups, was kinda bored.
worth the try thou. =)
i only sat in the salon for 3 n half hrs
as compared to the 6 hrs in salon. lol
next, tues and wed i was at my ah gong ah ma funeral.
ah gong passed away three yrs,
ah ma passed away last year....
this yr..
they conducted a ritual/rites/ceremony for both of them.
it was AWESOME! (serious)
it was REALLY REALLY I-N-T-E-R-E-S-T-I-N-G!!!
look at the headings below for different stories! ^^
1. I DIN NOE MY DAD RUNS SO CUTE!
LOL! this is really funny!
there was one part where the sons need to run
and surround the lil house which marks
north, south, east and west.
they have to run behind the priests.
AND...
EVERYONE!
i repeat again --> EVERYONE! (really everyone)
was so fascinated and excited bout all the mens running!
hurhs hurhs hurhs!
it was dinner time when everyone
excepts the sons was told to eat dinner.
but when that ritual starts..
eveyone quickly left their desk n rush to see hw all the mens run.
the two person besides me..
they made a guess say my second uncle cfm cant run.
(cuz he is the chubb-iest of all. n he is really huge in size)
thn they keep giggling to themselves.
when those mens nd to start running..
I SAW MY DAD!
LOL! he runs like a lil PENGUIN! LOL!
he WAS NOT RUNNING AT ALL.
looks more like waddling!
UBER ULTRA DUPER CUTEX NARHX!
everyone burst into laughter when they saw hw my dad runs.
and my second uncle turned out to be the fastest of all.
thn all start laughing n say "Wa, he can run ehhhs!"
this is a serious event.
but it so funny! =x
i starts to like my daddy more after seeing hw he runs.
LOL. nw i noe y i used to run tt way too..
2. An eye opening event.
first time i took part in this kind of thing.
we have to 'pray' thru out the whole of ydae.
from morning all the way till 11 plus at nite.
everyone was so tired..
cuz all of us reached hm 12 plus on the previous nite.
n nd to be there by 7 ydae.
there was a part..
where the priests prayed and they had to run round n round.
i m not trying to joke bout it.
but its a rare sight that i see such interesting things.
i din noe y they had to run so panic-ly.
i am curious to know. but i noe no one ll ans me.
3. The Filial VS Unfilial.
an event to show who is filial?
there were some..
who acted as if they were so filial n so concern bout their parents previously.
but this yr round.. they dun even bother to attend
its their own parents n they dun even bother to attend.
they said "i am not involved n i am not going, dun hav to tell me".
yet when her parents were alive,
they doted on her n spoilt her so much.
it makes me wonder..
will she even feel guilty about nt attending?
nt as if she is busy or wad. she is FREE.
but she DUN WAN to attend.
hurhs~~ wads the point of acting so concern in the previous funeral?
there were other relatives n my ah gong ah ma's friends who attended.
they made the effort to attend both days de rites..
and some stayed thru out the day to take part.
yet the daughter dun even bother.
hais. y is there such a person in the first place?
4. i dun like those who nv call my mum! ;(
there is GREAT attitude probs wit ppl on my father's side. *shhhhh*
i duno y, my mum DIN even offend them.
but they just like to pick on my mum!
there is this family (my uncle -- which is my dad's younger bro)
his kids, called everyone BUT DIN CALL MY MUMMY!
wth! they purposely address everyone BUT NT MY MUM.
i HATES THAT OKAY.
we din even dao them n we din even bu li their parents can!?
thn the sis giv those kind of face.
my mum looked at her.. she PURPOSELY turned AWAY.
and give tt dao look.
not only my mum, when i look at her..
she giv the hao lian face ACT NV KAN DAO WO.
its nt one time okayysss...
i feel like scolding her directly in front of her.
MEI LI MAO. as if she is the biggest of all lidatx.
she used to hate xiao ah ma..
nw big ah ma gone.. they jiu purposely close with xiao ah ma.
i tell u... this kind of ppl really KA NA SAI!
it really makes my mad when my mum told me
that they purposely call eveyone but ignore her..
IN FRONT OF HER.
u tell me... this kind of person..
shi bu shi yao rang wo ma sucks? haiz.
i CANNOT tolerate anyone tt PURPOSELY bully my mum.
if u see her actions.. u would feel like giving her a slap.
and i believe she is the one who forbid her sis n bro to call my mum or smth.
cuz i met her sis in toilet..
she is polite n she did smiled to me. =)
5. An Eventful day
this rites made an opportunites to gather all the relatives tgt.
i love listening to my aunties n uncles talk.
they were really lame and really funny..
also, i get to talk to my cousins (few only) more.
its nice to hav such a gathering.
cuz normally we wun even think of meeting up at all.
no wonder, confucius mentioned that rituals was made to bond families.
to envisage cohesion between families.
its heart warming to see everyone put in their efforts
to do a single task assigned to us. so sweet. hahas.
neglect n ignore all the unhappiness..
i would say this event is really worth while.
its a blessings from all our ancestors..
to bring us back tgt once in a while. ^^
thanks to all.
enjoyed myself to the max in such event.
there r more to say..
but i am tired now. *resting time*
before i end,
i still duno y.. they can dui xiao ah ma suddenly so gd.
but purposely ignore my mum. =(
becuz my mummy mei you li yong jia zhi?
dun say shi i think too much.
they rreally zhe zhong ren.
i have seen alot of their actions...
i know. but i din say out.
keeping quiet doesnt mean i am stupid.
she sometimes use stare n diao one.
but i act gong. cuz.. i feel mei you yi si to stare back
BUT DOESNT MEAN SHE CAN CONTINUE TO XIAO ZHANG!
seriously, i hope they wake up some day.
