I have been thinking alot this holiday..
and i realised this:
As we grow older and older..
Our tolerance to certain things get lesser and lesser,
Because we have experienced enough of
those shits and craps in our life.
Today I surf fb and I saw Chia Yun posted this:
In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test.
In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson
-- Tom Bodett
It is so true.
In life u are given a test.. that teaches u some lessons. :)
I would say..
I only realised recently that I have very very low tolerance..
or totally no tolerance to attention seeker.
it irks me n affect me alot to see such people. :(
i went church service with cw ydae..
(my mum duno abt it. shhh)
and i learnt something really meaningful to me.
be it in a family r/s or married couple or unmarried couple..
trust is very very very crucial.
i experienced this multiple times that affects me alot.
that i really realised the importance of trust in a couple.
secondly.. to make a relationship works..
make sure what is important to her/him..
is important to u as well.
the pastor gave an example..
he went on an oversea trip with his wife.
his wife likes to take public transport..
she feels exciting and happy taking public transport
when they go on tour...
but the pastor do nt enjoy taking public transport at all.
cuz he have to carry those huge laugages..
but cuz it would make her happy..
he would owas try to take public transport with her.
and tt makes his wife really happy!
so.. can u see?
taking public transport is 'impt' to her cuz it makes her happy.
so make wad is impt to her (pastor's wife)
as impt to u (pastor) too!
this will helps to maintain a relationship. :)
i couldnt agree more on this.
i was troubled with some matters before going church.
i told God if only he could address my prob in the church service.
n he did. i feel so much beta after listening to it.
but i duno if God answer my prayer or cw's prayer..
cuz cw told me he prayed to God too..
hoping God would touch on the same issue as me. haha.
*most imptly.. forgive n forget. :)
