whahas! finally 7 days of funeral ended!
it's the first time i took part in a 7 days funeral..
i m so so so so soooo tired when it came to the
last day (ydae) and tdy!
all the kneeling makes my knees pain..
think blue black coming out soon.. lols.
anw, reason for holding a 7 days funeral for
big ah ma
cuz she requested for it while she was alive..
and she wanted it to be rei nao..
so they invited a live band with 2 singers..
and aso opera for ah ma..
*interesting*
thru these.. i realised what i've learnt is so true..
confucius value.. that were being passed down to us..
filial piety, respectfulness and etc..
and i really do agree with confucius..
that.. following rites and rituals with sincerity..
is the best way to cultivate oneself..
confucius passed down "Li" (rites and rituals)
cuz not only it had helped to rule the country properly..
thru rites.. it helps to envisage the solidarity within the
family n kin groupings..
i felt this is really interesting that it really works this way..
i should say.. this time round..
my xiao ah ma got along beta with big ah ma side..
i m relieved n felt glad it turned out this way..
thou there were so much things happened in between..
shall share it next time.. cuz i think it would
be a uber long entry thn. =x
also, i really hope the route for my big ah ma
would be a smooth one.. hope my ah gong was
there to guide her and help her.. lastly, hope
big ah ma would be happy with what we've done
for her and the outcome this time round..
it was definitely so much beta thn tt time ah gong's funeral..
xi wang ah gong pei zhe ni.. =)
random tot: i felt i m old alr..
i m starting to tok abt confucius values n everything.. =.=
